There are moments people work towards for years. A contract is signed, a business reaches a decisive scale, an important undertaking succeeds. The result may finally bring financial security previously missing. Friends offer congratulations, business partners get in touch and the family is pleased. Everything suggests a good day.
Usually, it probably is. What follows can nevertheless look strange. Someone feels proud and tired at once. Relief lasts less time than expected. Decisions that once shaped daily life suddenly disappear. There may even be restlessness that is difficult to explain amid the congratulations.
What bothers me about the public story of success is how little space it allows these reactions. Success is treated as proof that all the effort was worthwhile. Difficulty afterwards readily attracts suspicions of ingratitude or indulging a luxury problem. That is an unhelpful way to talk about people. A project's outcome and the condition of the person who carried it are separate things.
There is an opposite exaggeration, too. Sometimes extraordinary success is presented as almost inevitably followed by depression. Research provides no basis for that. There is no general psychological diagnosis called "success depression", nor any defensible claim that particularly successful people must eventually be broken by their achievements. What researchers can examine are several mechanisms that may coincide under certain conditions.
The goal is reached; the tension remains
Long periods under pressure can make constant vigilance familiar. Decisions cannot wait, mistakes can be expensive and the next deadline is already approaching. Even in the evening, thoughts return to matters that could actually wait until tomorrow. Such a period may end happily. But a ceremonial signature does not give your body and established habits detailed instructions for what happens next.
In her 2018 review of the recovery paradox, organisational psychologist Sabine Sonnentag describes the interaction of work stressors and recovery. People under substantial strain particularly need recovery, yet often find it harder to detach mentally from work at precisely that point. High demands can be associated with worse sleep, fewer recovery activities and continued preoccupation with work.
This research concerns work-related strain, not specifically successful business sales or winning competitions. It cannot provide a complete explanation of crisis after triumph. It does help explain why a positive end to work does not automatically remove the strain accumulated beforehand.
Imagine someone who has built a business through years of difficult conditions. Much of the pressure suddenly disappears. They may, for the first time, notice how exhausted they really are. That is a plausible possibility, not a medical finding about that individual. Conversely, relief may immediately bring better sleep, greater calm and considerable happiness. Both fit the fact that people differ and process strain differently.
Exhaustion deserves consideration in its own right. A large profit at the end does not make it untrue. An excellent result is an assessment of the project. It says surprisingly little about how much energy somebody used along the way.
Success and well-being do not always move together
The general relationship between goals and well-being is well supported. A 2015 meta-analysis by Klug and Maier combined 85 studies with 108 independent samples. Successful goal pursuit was positively associated overall with subjective well-being. Interestingly, the relationship was stronger when studies considered progress towards goals rather than attainment alone.
That is far from proof that people fall into a hole after success. The analysis compares different measures and predominantly observed associations. It does recall an experience familiar across many activities: working towards something makes progress visible every day. Problems are solved, decisions made and changes observed. Reaching the goal often ends a familiar process too.
For long projects, this can matter considerably. Moving something forward may have been part of everyday life for years. After success, the result exists but regular engagement with it disappears. You can rightly feel proud while missing the daily progress.
It therefore helps to consider outward success and inner experience separately. The company sold for a good price: that remains true. The person behind it may currently feel unwell: that can also be true. Neither cancels the other.
When you reach the big goal and surprisingly little changes examines the more ordinary disappointment of success bringing less happiness than expected. Here, the concern is a potentially greater upheaval, when strain, routine and self-image shift together rather than an expectation simply going unmet.
A role can disappear with the achievement
Many major goals are attached to a role. Someone is a founder, a managing director, a high performer, the person who solves a particular problem or holds a team together. That role shapes what others ask of them and how they experience themselves daily. It need not take unusual vanity for this to matter. Responsibility and belonging often grow out of ordinary work.
When a project finishes, the role may abruptly lose its content. Selling a company is an especially clear example. A signature may end part of what once went without saying. Others will now decide matters previously under your control. Someone who experienced the business as a central purpose for years may need to find their bearings again.
Social psychological research on life transitions offers a framework. A 2021 review by Haslam and colleagues describes how existing and new group memberships can support people through change. Social identities arise from belonging, shared history and roles within groups. A transition can therefore be challenging even when freely chosen and advantageous.
The authors examine different life changes, not specifically crises after commercial success. Deriving a general founder psychology would overstate their findings. A more cautious conclusion is sufficient: reorganising a sense of self can take time when a central part falls away.
You can see it in daily life. The diary is free, but nobody asks for a decision. The phone rings less, although finances are better than ever. The old role may have been demanding and a place to feel competent and needed. You can miss both without regretting the decision to leave.
You have sold your company. What comes next? examines that specific transition. It is only one situation in which outward achievement can coincide with an inner change of role.
Expectations can become part of the difficulty
Working towards something for years allows time to imagine afterwards. Perhaps everything will become quieter. Life will finally feel complete. Worries that accompanied every decision may stop. Such expectations can provide strength and make hard periods bearable.
People are not particularly good, though, at estimating the intensity and duration of future feelings. In their 2005 overview of affective forecasting, psychologists Timothy Wilson and Daniel Gilbert explain how people often overestimate how strongly and how long a future event will affect them. One reason is giving an anticipated high point more weight in imagination than the many other things future daily life will contain.
A good outcome remains good. But someone hoping for a lasting transformation of their mood may be surprised as its effect gradually weakens. Difficulty may become more serious when that sobering discovery coincides with exhaustion, a lost role or an existing burden.
Uncomfortable thoughts readily follow. If I have achieved everything and still do not feel as expected, what is wrong? Did I pursue the wrong goal? Should I be more grateful? Understandable questions, but they already contain a doubtful assumption: that a financial or professional achievement should simultaneously transform every other area of life.
No research finding establishes such an expectation. Relationships, health, habits and earlier burdens accompany us across the finish line. A major success changes much. It does not replace an entire life with a suddenly flawless version.
Why entrepreneurs can be satisfied and strained at once
Accounts of founders often offer a simple picture. Either successful entrepreneurs are happy because they work independently and autonomously, or they are burnt out because work demands too much. The findings are less convenient.
In a 2018 research review, Ute Stephan examined 144 empirical studies of entrepreneurs' mental health and well-being. A later meta-analysis by Stephan, Rauch and Hatak, published in 2023, combined 94 studies from 82 countries. Compared with employees, entrepreneurs reported greater positive well-being in several areas, including through autonomy and meaningful work. Stress and adverse psychological experiences could also be elevated. Findings depended partly on which aspect of well-being was measured.
This cautions against hasty labels. Someone can be very satisfied with entrepreneurship and still suffer considerably under its demands. Successfully completing a venture therefore means neither that everything beforehand was wonderful nor that strain automatically disappears afterwards.
These studies mainly examine entrepreneurship during working life. They do not establish how often people experience a crisis after an exceptionally successful conclusion. More direct data would be necessary to test the popular account of "success depression" convincingly. In researching this topic, I found no robust basis for estimating its general prevalence.
A difficult transition is not always an illness
Feeling exhausted, empty or lost after success can be unpleasant and deserves to be taken seriously. Proximity to an achievement cannot, by itself, determine the nature of that experience. Temporary disappointment differs from a longer-term mental illness. Persistent exhaustion can have different causes. Depression cannot be diagnosed because someone looks unhappy after a major event.
Nor should burnout become a universal word for everything that feels difficult after hard work. The World Health Organization classifies burnout in ICD-11 as an occupational phenomenon, not a medical condition in its own right. It concerns chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. That differs from a blanket diagnosis of "crisis after success".
Terms help when they distinguish things. Distributing them indiscriminately makes individual experience harder to understand. It may be more useful first to name what changed. Is a familiar occupation missing? Has exhaustion become noticeable for the first time? Have relationships shifted? Or was the hope for a permanently different emotional life simply larger than the actual change?
Such questions cannot provide a diagnosis at a distance. They can prevent a complicated situation being filed under an attractive label and mistaken for an explanation.
Life after a goal is still a stage of life
Another strand of psychological research concerns managing goals. Wrosch and colleagues examined in 2003 how people disengage from unattainable goals and find new ones. Across three studies, this ability was associated under certain conditions with greater subjective well-being. The studies specifically concerned unattainable goals, not successfully completing a business venture. They nevertheless illustrate a basic point: relationships with goals can change, and finding a new direction is a psychological process in its own right.
After success, there may no longer be a need to direct the same energy towards the same purpose. The next stage need not immediately be filled with a larger project. Taking some distance may be appropriate. Later, professional ambition may return, or another kind of responsibility, or simply interest in things for which time was previously scarce.
Thinking about this differs from telling people to find meaning quickly. Someone exhausted may first need recovery before another major decision makes sense. Someone content need not search artificially for a crisis. Someone genuinely struggling deserves attention to their particular circumstances rather than a general story about how terrible success supposedly is.
A good outcome does not guarantee an easy transition
If somebody struggles after a major success, we should diminish neither the achievement nor the difficulty. The project may have been one of their greatest accomplishments. The cost may still be lingering tiredness or unfamiliar emptiness. After a few weeks, everything may settle again. There is room for all three possibilities.
Crises often do not arise from one event neatly explained by a catchy headline. Changes can overlap. External pressure disappears, recovery takes time, an old role changes and hoped-for feelings arrive differently. For some, these produce a manageable adjustment. For others, they may intensify more serious distress. Existing studies cannot support a general prediction.
Financially free, and suddenly without a purpose offers a more practical account for people mainly encountering an unusually open routine after success. This article instead considers how a positive outcome and a difficult inner state can occur together.
The idea behind Tired of Wealth also touches the unusual question of wealth's place in life. It is not an answer to psychological distress. Giving money away is neither therapy nor a requirement for finding direction after success. Questions of well-being deserve answers extending beyond a bank balance.
My remaining thought is simple: achieving an important goal entitles you to satisfaction without immediately feeling completely transformed. Struggling despite a good result does not disprove your success. Perhaps the outward story has to end before what happened to the person within it becomes visible at all.
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